How to be inspired from this iconic person?

Kevin O.
5 min readJan 26, 2021

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Betty White (ew.com)

As of 17 January 2021, she is officially 99 years old and counting! 1 of the most inspiring figure in the entertainment world. With less stories but more onto achievements, she has led a healthy life and a happy one.

Upon reading her story of reaching a blessed age of 99, I had to stop and make a moment to think and feel what has been going around from last year till date. In this time of trial, people tend to ensure that they’re safe and sound with their loved ones. However, some aren’t as lucky as others and through this time, some of us or if not all of us indeed, are scared to lose our lives during this challenging time and we’re trying our best to make sure we survive.

However, at this very time. Some are just not interested to save others. What do I mean by that? At the moment, there are some who decided to use the social media to which that has been used extensively as we had to stay at home more rather than being outside, then the fear mongering started, by adding the exaggerated stuff to make things worse and make people to be overwhelmed with it and fall into disturbed mental health or having anxiety.

Therefore, I do hope that through this short story. Let’s rise back and fight to make sure you’re not going wacky tacky with your mental health by fear and kindly resort yourself to watch this inspiring figure, such as Betty White, she has outlived a lot of generations and this is indeed something to be treasured.

Side Note

Whereas you might be worried about the present condition to the extend that some are putting exaggeration as well as to inform that it is way more dangerous that it is used to be, blaming almost every single person (Let’s just say side A thinks that they’re doing more and better than side B). And Yes, it’s actively roaring in social media, and the worse thing is, people tend to believe it and yet making a lot of noise without any real action to help people around them, who are in need to be helped, such as those who lost their jobs, active income, and having to struggle to survive on daily basis.

I truly wonder how we can be so heartless during the time when we should try to help people around rather than fear mongering on the social media, who act like a reminder accounts to ensure public safety. But, it goes otherwise, just to promote hate and kept people in the devil’s circle to think that these people behind those reminder accounts are doing better than the rest of the people on earth.

Therefore, What does it tell you to?
“Understand to take smart precautions of health, while ensuring
that you’re not being fear mongered by the media and constantly worried in life. I’ve been 1 of the most overthinking person that I could imagine myself (due to certain thing) which now has vanished, praise be to God.

And, please live up your life, Try to watch more funny stuff, motivational ones, give back to society, no matter how small it is, help people around, even by just being there and no further action needed, while being mindful to not putting people to focus only to YOU, YOU and YOU only, make it a balanced one.”

“For those who are struggling with job, study, relationship or anything during this time of trial, kindly reach out to those who are able to help you out.
It might not be a direct financial help, finished tasks or simplified advices to manage relationships.But, as long as they can listen to you, it should be enough to empower yourself and head on with your journey.”

“Do remember to be mindful and not being an egoistical maniac by making these people to only think about YOU and your problems, they do have life on their own, so be mindful once again and keep it to a balanced one.”

“For those without any intention to fear mongering into the society, but more into reminding others, you are blessed. However, do take note to avoid preaching in social media without real action, do understand that a lot of people aren’t still going to do any action due to their basic needs that aren’t being fully fulfilled. Therefore, it is better to share the ideas of new stuff that can help them to raise and not losing their hopes.”

“For those who do the fear mongering in social media:
Can’t say much about you, since you do have your very own intention, am I not correct? Take a moment to use the given mind of yours, to realize that you reap what you sow, maybe not in this lifetime if that’s the case, to which you may think, you have nothing to worry about (ah, that toxic positivity, it kills)
But, do remember what goes around, comes back around.”

“We do have different ways of thinking and none would ever be the same.
Unless, we agree on mutual stuff. Isn’t that the world that we live in?
Well, it takes 2 to tango yet ignorant minds would still be around by picking out the fear on some who aren’t capable to handle it.
Come on, you’re better than that. There is still a chance to be a better person and not the suck up ones, unless, you are one.”

And the last part of this story:

Kindly take a moment to read, share and let others know through this post that, we do now live in a time of trial with horrors. And being way too cautious, won’t bring any safety guards near you.

Yes, be safe and yet be sure to filter stuff before you share it to others, we do not need fear, we need to help people, empower them economically (if you can) or by pure motivation of help without putting the intentioned horrors just to make them feel the same fear as you do, you got to face your own demons so make sure you beat it!

Preach to help, not to monger the fear, do think on both sides and not just one side of yours just because the favorite object on earth is, ourselves.

Time to change for the better now and the future, do take care of the environment as well please.

You save yourself and do save the nature (PLEASE)! Live a healthy life and raise back the economy to power so each one us can live a better life and keep extending our hands to help others in need, be a better human, today!

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Kevin O.
Kevin O.

Written by Kevin O.

He writes about self-improvement & reflection along with relationship & marriage management. His goal is to make a better version of yourself. You are loved.

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